Jellio Jubilee Sky

Work has being really overwhelming recently + collick going on Maternity soon and a few of us got to rush in to cover the deadline. I hope we dun drop dead before the line. After chionging many weekends for the project. I suddenly find that the off days given by my IC is not very justifiable. I slogged for 4 weekends and I only got 2 off day. This isnt right cos I spent the same working hrs timing to work on the project at site and yet I only get half the rest. I wasnt even given OT pay for working OT. Not that I wanted to work on weekend but I left without much choice when we have to minimise the downtime disruption to my users. Yes, I shld claimed back whatever they owned me. I have a family and kids to nurture and the only time I can really spend my time with them is on weekends. How stupid I am for not fighting my RIGHT of off day!!!! stupid stupid stupid... Now my energy is depleting fast and I need rest day to recharge......... Last things to do before I end my Thursday. To plan ...

Jan: Mummy, why you give me a didi and not a mei mei? Mum: You should ask daddy? Jan: Why ask daddy? You are the one to give me didi? Mum: Daddy is has a part to play with. Jan: Can you give me another mei mei? Mum: "SHOCK!!!". No more didi and mei mei. Jan: But I like to have one mei mei. I can play with her mah. Mum: If we have another mei mei then who will carry you? We will have have anymore hands to carry you. You know that? Jan: Hmmmm.. is it? Mum: If we have another mei mei, then mummy will carry mei mei, Daddy will have to carry didi and who will carry you?? Jan: Oh! then dun want mei mei anymore. Law and I laughed after hearing that. Mum: Janelle, look at mummy's tummy. Jan: hmm, why? Mum: There is a little mei mei in my tummy. Jan: Huh! Why? *shocking face* Mum: Why? Just another mei mei lor. You told mummy you wanted another mei mei? Jan: No, I dun want anymore. So how? Mum: How? Jan: If there is a mei mei then who is going to carry me? Mummy, can we dun have o...

This is the way we dress the kids Dress the kids Dress the kids This is the way we dress the kids For Chinese New Year. 1st day of CNY. 2nd day of CNY 3rd of CNY 4th day of CNY

It is really a busy start for the RAT year. I didnt even have the time to deco my place. Luckily Janelle is a great helper and see she helping me to deco the plant. Of course, Julian is a little joy ard. My little helper working hard for CNY Last checking.... After freshing the kids up, they are all ready to head down to great granny place which is a traditional in Law's family to pay the nice old lady a visit on the 1st day of lunar new year and also a get together time with the cousins. Law's cousins and Janelle and Julian cousins. Cousins (they are twins) A family photo on yearly affair My sister invited us to her place on the 2nd day of lunar new year. This was the 1st time she prepared popiah for us, althot not to my mum's standard but was a good attempt. However, the rest of the food are all ready fried food. Which was quite stressful to our throat and weight. The kids are having fun at the playground Everyone getting ready for Luo Hei moment Luckily, her MIL...

A busy start of the Rat year. I dun have time to clean my place, I rushed to get the CNY goodies and no planning was really done. Furthermore, a lousy Reunion dinner with my ILs. Luckily I have a good and warming reunion dinner at my mum side. I was glad that I was not the only person who felt that my REUNION DINNER wasnt a proper dinner with my ILs. It somehow created a resentment towards my ILs. It just made me believe that we were not important to them. I wondered how different it will be when my BIL has kids. Will my ILs started to compare my kids, which they already comparing Jan and Jul. Why do old pple like to do such a things and even commented infront of the kids. I have finally voice out my stand yesterday. I feel great or half great cos I only voice out half of it. Sometime I wonder am I the one who hinder Law progress. May be without me, he will do better.

I just have reunion dinner with my ILs. I really cannot believe my eyes when I reached their place. Everyone already had their share of dinner and only left me and Law. Ending up only two of us clearing the steamboat. I was pretty sad to see such scene and I felt sorry for myself and Law for having such a pathetic reunion dinner this year. Reunion Dinner means to have dinner with all the family members, no matter how crampy it will be, we should all gathering around the table and enjoy the food together. I dun feel reunion at all, the reason that my MIL gave was that the table was too small for 6 adults and 2 kids. She complained that with Julian ard, it was very hard to have a peaceful meal. Therefore, she decided to go ahead with the dinner so that she could help to jagar the kids and we could eat therefore have a PEACEFUL dinner. Yes, wat a great idea but my heart doesnt feel PEACE AT ALL. I lost all my appetite that nite. I felt totally left out, I felt like only reunion with Law a...

I have got Janelle shoes. Yes, new shoes for the New year. I got two pair of Colettee shoes. One pump and one small heel to satisfy her vanity. She was so happy that I agree to get her a pair of heel shoes.